Is there such a thing as "meant to be"? Or is "meant to be" something we tell ourselves so we sleep better at night? OR it is just easier to say "it wasn't meant to be" than face the truth because failure and rejection are two very difficult pills to swallow?
I mean, think about it. It kind of rings true in some cases. You go cray cray over a guy or gal you just meet, who you're really into. Do you really want to think about that person simply not liking you as opposed to just saying, "it wasn't meant to be"?
It's almost like GiGi and Alex in He's Just Not That Into You. You meet that initial guy, build something small up in your head, and before you know it, you think you have a thing with him. Then, he goes and kinda acts distant, not really paying attention to you. You start making up excuses. "Maybe his grandmother died??" And that's all. His grandma just died. No wonder he stopped calling/texting you gorgeous girl you! Eventually, you just tell yourself "it's meant to be" so it'll all work out, or "it simply wasn't meant to be" and move on.... which ever helps you sleep better really.
Here. Here's some pictures and pretty boy Justin Long to help you understand:
But I told you.....his grandma died.....or he got arrested. That's why he hasn't called.
Well, damn. Is this your "it wasn't meant to be moment"? Probs.
But the thing of it is, either way you look at it, you were just rejected in some way. Somewhere down the road, the thing you built up with this guy failed.
A guy doesn't need to be reminded how great you are. If he really is into you that is. So what's the most logical thing to do after this little realization of yours, GiGi? That's right. "Let him sweat it out!" Cut him off. Let him miss you.
That's probably a very accurate statement. But there is always gonna be that someone else, who catches your eye. The process may start all over then. Just remember though:
In the end, I really don't think there is a "meant to be" or "not meant to be" factor that plays that big of a role in relationships. It takes work. Relationships are work. Especially if they are going to last. That guy, he will make it happen, no matter what. And so would you. No exceptions. The odds and favors could be damned!! The hardest part? Finding someone to say that with you.
